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The real problem

Posted by Questioner on 2017-March-16 12:23:26, Thursday
In reply to More common for boys not to see it as molestation? posted by Lysander on 2017-March-16 07:35:12, Thursday

That same man tried to kiss me and wouldn't take no for an answer

In your example you are absolutely describing molestation. You said "no". Anyone who claims to be a "BoyLover" would have stopped immediately.

We don't know from the information given if your friend was being molested or not ... with the way the man approached you, I would venture a guess that your friend really had no choice in the matter.

But the real problem is this ...

There are so many cases of absolute loving, caring physical and emotional relationships between men and boys. Everyone is happy, everything is good.

Then society comes along and says "Oh how horrible! That man molested you in your youth."

C'mon ... yes, that is a legal definition of molestation ... but was it really?

Why suddenly did it become molestation after years of listening to society say it was?

????

Follow ups:

Yeah, but why isn't he taking no for an answer? - Lysander 2017-March-16 13:06:13, Thursday (14)
- Re: Yeah, but why isn't he taking no for an answer? - Pharmakon 2017-March-17 00:09:10, Friday (12)
  - I think there's a grain of truth to the idea that - Lysander 2017-March-17 09:15:10, Friday (11)
    - Re: I think there's a grain of truth to the idea that - Hammer Kaiser 2017-March-17 20:42:23, Friday (1)
      - Yeah, I asked my mom about this and she said that - Lysander 2017-March-18 08:34:22, Saturday (0)
    - So I was gonna say, the average American boy, even - Lysander 2017-March-17 09:33:24, Friday (7)
      - my point was - larry 2017-March-17 10:20:34, Friday (6)
        
        Re: my point was - Rickyg22 2017-March-17 13:14:06, Friday (1)
        
        ?????????? - larry 2017-March-17 14:34:24, Friday (0)
        
        so, by posting your response above mine - larry 2017-March-17 11:12:55, Friday (2)
        
        I didn't even see your post till you started - Lysander 2017-March-17 12:37:18, Friday (1)
        
        oh, never mind................nt - larry 2017-March-17 14:33:26, Friday (0)
        
        I don't remember dismissing you. - Lysander 2017-March-17 10:46:38, Friday (0)
    - coming up with an answer that works, can take time - larry 2017-March-17 09:22:00, Friday (0)
- Here's a thought... - Django 2017-March-16 16:49:54, Thursday (0)

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