Re: I think there's a grain of truth to the idea that

So for example, my friend who put up with his mom's boyfriend's advances when he was younger has now gone off the deep end with all the anger and resentment he feels over what happened. He's now inclined to be totally vindictive about it. What would he say if you said to him that given he was not a TWO yo, nor a special needs retard, but a totally aware 10 yo YOUTH, he therefore only has himself to blame as it was he who actually put up with it rather than putting a stop to it immediately? He could have easily put a stop to it straight away as doing so is a no-brainer, but he chose not to. He could have said "If you are a homo why are you even in with my mother? Get it in your head: I'm not a faggot, so go and find someone else!" Only a homosexual or a complete mommy's boy pussy would allow such behaviour to continue. I have absolutely no sympathy at all for cowards who prefer to scapegoat rather than accepting personal responsibility.