if he's attractive, probably hasn't been hit on nearly as many times as the typical American woman, so therefore probably just wouldn't have as much experience dealing with approaches and deflecting the ones he doesn't like. The first few times I got hit on, my thought was, "Okay, how do I turn this person down without hurting their feelings and causing a lot of drama." I ended up paralyzed by indecision and didn't even check "yes" or "no". Maybe I should added a box that said, "Yeah, as long as I get casual, no-strings-attached sex, and devoted faithfulness from you, and financial support for my lifestyle, without any requirement that I myself commit to monogamy or invest any resources in this relationship" and put a check mark there. |