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you may often be in tantalization, but perhaps not ever really in temptation. For example, imagine I know a 10 year old boy and he often sleeps over at my place. Like most 10 year old boys, he shows no sign of wanting to have sex with me. His agendas are elsewhere. What would I do to break this agenda barrier? Would I do like Mr. Cardenas and just wrap my arm around him and ask for permission to do what I know perfectly well he has no spontaneous notion of doing? Would I try to grab him in his sleep? (knowing full well he'd probably wake up with wtf balloons popping out all over). Would I try to turn a wrestling tussle into a porno when I know he'd much rather just have a moment of friendly wrestling? Hopefully your self-restraint is based at least partly on fellow-feeling for the boys in your life. If all the boys you know are horny teens who are sizing you up admiringly and counting the days til they're at the AOC, then you may need to supplement the mutual respect barrier with other forms of self-restraint. Like wanting to stay out of jail and all that. But you don't lose your empathy at age 70, don't worry. |