" As I said in my answer to Eric, we are already allowed to hug and possibly kiss boys that we know. " No, that's not true. There are men sitting in prison, today, who have done nothing more than hugging and kissing. Affection has been largely criminalized, now, not just sex. Because of the insidious nature of plea bargains, we can rarely be sure what the underlying "offense" was that was committed. I think that Manstuprator made valid points about the need for affection independently of the BL issue. To me, it sounds like you don't think he should be making that point because he is a BL. One gets the impression that you are making an argument that a BL, or at least, that particular BL, has no legitimate authority to express support for affection as though he has a conflict of interest that renders any such expression compromised. I think that is what was meant by you sounding like a non-BL castigating BL's. |