I am not sure there is a resolution

I am not sure there is an response that will satisfy you.... while we all maybe able to agree on "the truth", only you can know "your truth" which requires "Self-awareness". The "ability to perceive and understand the things that make you who you are as an individual, including your personality, actions, values, beliefs, emotions, and thoughts." Things that are not quantitative and measurable (for the most part) and rely on a persons self report of their qualitative state. International Boylove Day BoyWiki