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Re: Raising successful boys

Posted by monkeyLostInHead on 2026-March-27 10:50:08, Friday
In reply to Raising successful boys posted by Etenne on 2026-March-27 10:05:08, Friday

I have gone 100 rounds with quite a few people here about trying to impose there will on making a boy who they think he should be without taking into account who he is as a person.

Im pretty sure you are referring to me here, and this just goes to show that you dont read what I write, but just come up with your own interpretation through your own biased lens.

I do not want to impose my will on a boy to be who I think they should be.

Also, as I have said before, you have no idea "who they really are as a person", you are just guessing, or putting your own ideas and wishes on it.

But you are not going to change who a person fundamentally is

You do not know "who a person fundamentally is", and when you see the parents of some of these kids, you can tell that its not all about who the child fundamentally is.

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