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He's trying on a persona. I get that. And my question still is, why? How does he know that he is gay, and that this is the way gay people act? As I said, I suspect he has been coached or encouraged, possibly subtly and unconsciously. One of the things that I like and admire so much about boys is that they are genuine. So when I see a boy like this, being so fake, so performative, I cant help but wonder what has gone so wrong in his life that he has to perform in this way. And, as always, it comes down to the parents. In the same way, when I see a boy who is super angry and combative a lot of the time, I know that this is a reaction to his relationship with his parents. Its not "who he is" in any real sense. These kids often know very early on that they are going to be fabulous and start rehearsing for it right away. I dont really know what this means, or how you could know. And this kind of contradicts what you said before. Why are they trying out a persona if they already know they are going to be fabulous? You cant know you are going to be fabulous until you know what "being fabulous" means, and you dont find that out until its shown or demonstrated to you. And he absolutely IS gay, make no mistake about that! You cannot know that at this point. I sucked my first dick at seven the fact that boys experiment with other children, including with other boys, says nothing about whether they are gay or not. There are many more people who experimented with boys as a boy, than there are gays. Are you suggesting they are all closeted gays? Or what are you suggesting? This is not to take away from your own experience. Perhaps you personally did know that you were gay at 7. But that doesnt mean that everyone who sucked a dick becomes gay or is gay. And, as ive said before, the fact that one is gay in no way requires one to act in this way. There is nothing unnatural about kids play acting, pretending or even playing with dicks. It's among the many things they do. I didnt exactly say there was. But is he play acting here? And if so, why is it that he feels the need to adopt the play acted persona as "who he is" rather than "be" in a genuine way? |