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Bigger Problem: Lack of Boys

Posted by Wheel on 2020-October-22 06:06:08, Thursday
In reply to 25 years at BC, Have the discussions evolved? posted by Jessy on 2020-October-22 02:17:46, Thursday

The biggest change I have seen with boylovers in my lifetime is friendships with boys. I remember a time when having a YF was possible and realistic. Unless you were a creep or behaved oddly you could have a boy in your life. Many of our kind found fulfillment in nonsexual friendships with boys they met through neighbors or friends. Looking after a fatherless boy and taking him fishing or to the movies made made you a saint.

Now there is paranoia about a man befriending a boy even under the most innocent of circumstances. Taking him on an outing raises the alarm for a parent.

Most boylovers are boyless today and it has affected our mental health. We can see that on Boychat as well.

Jessy, please do not reply to my post with a rant about mental health or the law. Whatever the reasons are for this situation boylovers are in general without boys in most western countries in an unprecedented way. Boylovers need boys.
wheel

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