I just wanted to thank all of you for your advice in that thread, I read every message and I really took all of it to heart. I was going through a rough time then, and I’m better now. I’m not going to tell her, not for a while at least. I downloaded Duolingo and started learning German. I hope they don’t change the laws there! I think I’ll tell the people closest to me once I’ve renounced my US citizenship, because that’s the point where you’re really free from our laws (seriously, look it up, minor sex laws are some of the few ones that have jurisdiction OUT of the country!) Figuring out life as a boy lover is really hard. They don’t write guides on this stuff, and going down the “normal” path won’t get us where we want to be. |