...because I do agree with what you've said. I only would consider it deviant behavior if there's a selfishness in it. If it's two children or a child and an adult willingly taking their clothes off and having a romp, I don't necessarily see a problem. If one or the other are doing it because they want it, regardless of the other's feelings I would say there's a deviancy to it. It doesn't mean the child is a sexual deviant or that they are somehow warped. In fact if anything, I'd say it makes them normal because it's a very human thing to have selfish desires. To me, though, it's like taking food off another child's plate. Just because you want something doesn't mean you should just take. It's always better to ask first. |