Many boys are very devious in little ways and more alarming ones too... Some burn aunts with a magnifying glass, or pull wings off a fly... Some make fires in the fields... Some engage in taking sex advantage of others... Some steal for the thrill of it... and the list goes on and on so when a youth engages in sex and then is made to be a victim, and he accepts that "title" and then plays the roll of the hurt, angry, fragile boy that was taken advantage of... all that has really done is made him to feel he "got away with it"... and could he get away with it again? You don't help male youth by victimizing them when they were fully engaged in the first place, you just make psychos out of them! and it's equally damaging to deny the sexual passion from playing out. |