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Posted by martirwithacause on 2011-November-19 16:28:23, Saturday
In reply to What's your deal? posted by Connor on 2011-November-19 10:19:13, Saturday


(There are a number of links listed below. Please at *least* look at the first one. It gives a brief run-down about why my name is "mud" at BC. Please. That one post explains most of what happened.)

Thanks... I guess. But I note a lot of anger in your post. I suppose I can understand why. You've been told many things, by people whom you probably have known for a long time and even trust. Unflattering things about "martirwithacause".

Then, again, you must be familiar with the phrases, "getting a bad rap" and "character assasination".

This post with all the asterisks - was because a recent post of mine was slimed - sent to YCDTOBC. That post *did not* violate Rule 6. It was about me, and I was careful to not violate any of the rules.

(I also feel - no, I *know* - that sex doesn't [usually] cause any problems for normal boys in a normal society. And I wished to illustrate/explain/reinforce that idea.)

I then made the post with all the asterisks to demonstrate that people interpret things. And, that if they have a bias, they interpret things a certain way. And that the previous post had been cogged - wrongly - because people didn't read it as it was written, but instead "inserted" things into it, and then PRF'd it. Cognizant (I believe) was the one who cogged it. I feel very sure that he missed just why the post was indeed OK, and did not "admit to any illegal activity" on my part.

The post was:
Sex is wonderful!
http://www.boychat.org/ycdtobc/messages/115592.htm

I posted that - which is a true story (why do I have to say that?) of one of my previous (and best) YF's

I posted that post in response to an earlier post, also about YF's, where people accused me of being a "child molester" who was screwing kids at random, and who never valued relationships. Which is false.

And I posted that in response to...

See - people have been making unfounded accusations about me. Over and over and over. For a long long time. It really has been a concerted campaign of harassment.

And - guess what? Others just picked it up, and parroted it. And the persecution blossomed. It really resembles a witch-hunt. I'm not exaggerating at all.

At this point, the ones who *know* this won't respond to any posts I make. Why? Because if they do then they *themselves* become the target of attacks! Really. It's true.


My "stated purpose" is, was, and has always been, to contribute to the betterment of the board. To help others understand better our situation. To try to educate ourselves, and others. And - don't laugh! - that we should treat each other with more respect and politeness on the board!

BTW - I've "stickied" the posts of mine that I thought were best/most helpful/significant, etc.

If you want to get an idea of those posts, google:

martirwithacause sticky site:boychat.org

(NOTE: Without the space between "martirwithacause" and "sticky")

Or for email security:

martirwithacause sticky email OR "e-mail" site:boychat.org

(NOTE: Without the space between "martirwithacause" and "sticky")

Take a look at the results. NOTE: This post itself is "stickied". Scroll to the bottom, press CONTROL + A to select all text. The "sticky" will become visible.

Some jerks here think it's "funny" to put fake "martirwithacause sticky" in posts they make criticizing me. Seb has done that. Search google for Seb's "stickied" posts criticizing me.

martirwithacause sticky seb site:boychat.org

(NOTE: Without the space between "martirwithacause" and "sticky")

You'll see a number of posts accusing me falsely of a number of things. One example - I posted a post about Amicus having freaked out and threatening to nick-link people. Seb responded that Amicus threatened to out people. Nick-linking and outing are separate things. Sometimes nick-linking may *lead* to eventual outing - BOTH ARE VERY BAD - but they are not the same thing. Seb missed that distinction. I wasn't defending Amicus - what he did was wrong - but I was saying, "Hey - the guy freaked out because he felt he needed to protect someone he thought he was in love with." I said to condemn Amicus, but have a human heart about it.

Seb attacked the posts I made about security matters. And you know the funny thing? I lifted almost all of the materials about security from MElf's old posts, as well as other posters (crediting them, of course)!

So when Seb said "martir's info is wrong, martir is full of shit about security", then - you see it, don't you? - he was saying that MElf and other posters were full of shit about security! What could be clearer than that? But, other posters didn't bother to check my posts - they just swallowed Seb's bullshit without question.

See the below posts of mine on e-mail security, etc. It will become extremely obvious that Seb is/was trolling me. My posts SHOW CONCLUSIVELY that his accusations are false! What more proof could anyone want? If you really want proof of the trolling that I am claiming is occurring, just do that. OK?


The following posts are in reverse chronological order, newest to oldest. Here you will see how the harassment began, has continued, and continues even now.

I strongly suggest that you start with the first, then work your way back. "Scan" them, if you like. You'll see the things worth slowing down to read.

Sorry they are not "clickable" links, and that you'll have to copy/paste them into the browser address bar one-by-one. Not being sure that you will even read them, I haven't put in the work to make them "clickable". Sorry.

I don't suggest that you spend time right now going through each thread. That would take a very long time. Could you just assume, for the moment, that I have been truthful and honest in the posts I am giving links to? I think that, as you go through them, the "big picture" will become very clear. Just a suggestion, of course.

Please read *this* post first:

Such a sad, sad state of affairs at BC... - martirwithacause 2011-November-17 23:46:56, Thursday (8)
http://www.boychat.org/mbc/messages/66115.htm


Warning re: e-mail and off-board contact. - martirwithacause 2011-November-7 15:39:18, Monday (0)
http://www.boychat.org/mbc/messages/65779.htm

E-mail - a personal (horror?) story... - martirwithacause 2011-October-29 13:07:06, Saturday (18)
http://www.boychat.org/mbc/messages/65562.htm

Nice going, Cogs! A must-read for all cogs. - martirwithacause 2011-November-2 13:30:16, Wednesday (7)
http://www.boychat.org/mbc/messages/65669.htm

Critical e-mail security warning! - martirwithacause 2011-October-26 07:07:03, Wednesday (34)
http://www.boychat.org/mbc/messages/65495.htm

MElf - I haven't read the thread below. - martirwithacause 2011-October-24 02:21:46, Monday (49)
http://www.boychat.org/mbc/messages/65412.htm

I haven't read the following thread:
Helping marti with his internet addiction - Maintenance Elf 2011-October-22 22:09:09, Saturday (47)
http://www.boychat.org/mbc/messages/65375.htm

''Your posts piss me off! You annoy me!'' - martirwithacause 2011-October-22 01:00:04, Saturday (7)
http://www.boychat.org/mbc/messages/65359.htm

E-mailing is just like having sex... Posted by martirwithacause on 2011-October-21 03:23:41, Friday
http://boychat.org/messages/1273972.htm

If you read about how stalkers and antis have ... Posted by martirwithacause on 2011-May-12 09:17:29, Thursday
http://www.boychat.org/messages/1251623.htm

That week's worth of posts was probably... Posted by martirwithacause on 2011-October-17 03:20:40, Monday
http://boychat.org/messages/1273310.htm
(Refer to the parent posts to see what that was about.)

To feed, or not to feed, a troll. That is the ... Posted by martirwithacause on 2011-October-15 02:48:24, Saturday
http://www.boychat.org/mbc/messages/65291.htm

Then - about updating the BC FAQ...
The FAQ revision committee Posted by martirwithacause on 2011-September-21 09:24:05, Wednesday
http://www.boychat.org/mbc/messages/65143.htm

I'm royally pissed... Posted by martirwithacause on 2011-September-15 00:25:40, Thursday
http://www.boychat.org/mbc/messages/65109.htm

And the BC_BLISS script, for those complaining about "seeing my nick too often"
Anybody want BC_Bliss script for Greasemonkey? - martirwithacause 2011-September-13 18:11:29, Tuesday (0)
http://www.boychat.org/mbc/messages/65105.htm
... I had posted complete directions - at least twice - for installing Greasemonkey, with the BC_BLISS script.

Then, JB harassing me - he was following me around the board, sliming my posts. Calling me an anti, troll, fake boylover, etc - I asked for the cogs to step in and stop the harassment:
MElf - this JB thing.I can match each of his posts Posted by martirwithacause on 2011-September-2 10:47:50, Friday
http://www.boychat.org/mbc/messages/65000.htm

... which JB was doing because:
martir's not offering an apology... Posted by jonasBark on 2011-August-25 12:17:37, Thursday
http://www.boychat.org/mbc/messages/64845.htm

... a mild rebuke from me, suggesting the cogs stop the harassment:
A certain poster seems to be going to extremes... Posted by martirwithacause on 2011-August-25 10:28:22, Thursday
http://www.boychat.org/mbc/messages/64841.htm

... and another rebuke:
Excuse me, but would someone be so kind... Posted by martirwithacause on 2011-August-24 16:08:46, Wednesday
http://www.boychat.org/mbc/messages/64825.htm

... and a long list of instances demonstrating the trolling:
Oh, and just one more thing... Posted by martirwithacause on 2011-August-24 10:12:37, Wednesday
http://www.boychat.org/mbc/messages/64802.htm

Please note: These posts are only going back as far as the end of August.

This shit has been going on almost since the second month I started posting here.

Excuse me for saying the following, but if you don't take the above seriously, then - well, YOU TOO have swallowed the bullshit that others have posted about me. And then it looks like there *is* really no hope. When something is spelled out clearly in black-and-white, and someone cannot see it, then all hope is really lost...

[Select posts that demonstrate the campaign of harassment against me, and how it has developed. Also posts showing what I've been doing on BC.] martirwithacausesticky


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