Considering what could be at stake here it's hardly even close to being worth the risk in my opinion. There are ALWAYS choices... you may feel like you have no choice and you have to let it out... but you CAN choose not to. Might I suggest that you at least work on your "blabber mouth" issue with him first? You might not think so now... but this is a highly dangerous and important choice you are about to make. Think hard and long first... and then think harder and longer. Cya Rospo the toad |