"I can't even tell you the number of fine upstanding straight family men that I have known that cheat on their wife with other women or men or both. "Family man" is simply the role they play/ the image they project but the reality is that they are as big or bigger pervs then the rest of us.." I suppose how people are and how they present is often enough different. I do my best to keep those two things close, but of course, many don't. Social pressure is a crazy bastard. "Isn't that part of the full women experience? :P" Unfortunately, yes. What is less so a part of the full women experience for the majority of women is having their very existence as a trans woman be the subject of fetish and ridicule all at once. Objectification is certainly a norm among cis women - the sort of fetishization trans women undergo is less so. "Does that mean that you don't enjoy bottoming?" I've frankly no idea how you got that from this conversation. I've next to no interest in topping. Didn't particularly before transition. Even less so do I after transitioning. It veers into discomforting territory because it is insulting when a man does not know how to treat you like a person. I prefer not to be the object of a man's experimentation. |