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I wouldn't be violent with boys, but a lot of pain isn't physical. They could regret it later in life, wasting their first time on an adult. Or they might say yes because they want attention, not because they want sex. I like very young boys. I don't think they could understand the full meaning of sexual acts. And when they get older and start understanding the significance, they might feel used. You're also taking away their chance of exploring things at their own pace, since you, as an adult, will already know how things work. And what if triggering their sexual side to early makes them hypersexual? Beside the harm caused by the act itself, there is the harm caused by society. I don't think it's responible to burden a kid or teenager with the burden of having to keep that secret and risking them to have to go through the process of an investigation. The fact that people label it as harmfull, might also make them perceive it as something bad when they get older. I'm not touching boys, because that's the only way to be sure I'll never accidentaly hurt them. The fear of harming them was an irrational fear, caused by reading things that imply that pedophiles have poor self-control. I no longer have that fear. |