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Just because you can't imagine anyone accepting you does not mean that others should cower in fear of rejection/attack. Its nothing to do with what I imagine. Its to do with actual facts. And, the fact, born out by evidence, is that the vast majority of people will react negatively if you tell them you are sexually attracted to children. And a smaller proportion will react with physical violence if you tell them you are sexually attracted to children. There is little to no evidence that people will in fact not act negatively, but will welcome you into their group. In your town or a town near you there are people going to church and being honest about all kinds of life situations including many people struggling with same sex attraction, addiction to porn and/or prostitutes, attraction to children and all manner of other men's integrity issues. I dont believe you. I do not believe that people in churches are any more accepting of sexual attraction to children. I do not believe that they sit around and discuss someones sexual attraction to children. You can bury your head in the sand and pretend that those conversations aren't happening First I would have to know that they actually were happening. Its not "burying my head in the sand" to not believe what you are saying. Its nothing to do with "pretending they are not happening". Im not pretending anything. That implies that I know that they are happening. I dont know that they are happening. or spew gloom and doom narratives about what would happen "if" someone was honest with their small group at church I have done no such thing. |