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Sources say that since the dawn of online boylove discourse (and offline before that) people have been asking where they could move to to be "accepted," which is similar to the question of which church/mosque/temple would accept them. Historically the answer to the relocation question has been to either move to a place so impoverished and desperate for western money that the locals will tolerate anything in return for money (a situation which many globetrotting pro-c pedophiles abused terribly leading to today's popular perception of pedophiles as abusive child molesters), but according to most old timers, the more level headed advice has always been to resist the impulse to abandon your community of origin and either stay home or if you are going to move, move somewhere where they speak your language and generally share the customs of your homeland. A similar truth can be recognized when seeking a church home. If you were raised Southern Baptist then it's going to be hard to adapt to a Roman Catholic congregation. If you started out Mormon then you're going to stick out like a sore thumb in a Mosque, but there is a reason that Islam is one of the most popular and most attractive religions worldwide. Some people respond well to the discipline and mystical teachings of Islam, and that's great for them. Different strokes for different folks. The Dalai Llama famously advised people not to convert to Buddhism, because no matter what religious framework that people find themselves within, there are messages of compassion, peace, patience and acceptance to embrace. This isn't to say that no one should switch religions, but just in general people shouldn't reject their own culture and community. The grass may appear greener on the other side, but if you take your same baggage and trauma to a different group you are still going to be the same person, just without the basic shared conception of reality, leading to a potentially harder time connecting. ![]() |