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Re: Pretty pathetic...

Posted by Nightlight on 2025-July-3 07:59:55, Thursday
In reply to Pretty pathetic... posted by BLueRibbon on 2025-July-3 04:16:35, Thursday

Even if my words weren’t my own, you know what’s really pathetic? That instead of addressing anything actually said, you’re back to the same tired routine of being angry and aggrieved. We see it in your posts and your sigpic. Nothing new or productive is offered. At least in my case I'm not trying to hide what my posting intentions are. I'm not pretending to help.

But you do.

You could’ve helped the OP move forward. Instead, you fan the flames of his resentment.

"You were robbed."

"The boys were stolen from you."

Why say that? So he can end up as bitter as you? You don't know enough details of his life or actions to know to what extent he may have caused the situations he describes. I have no intention of accusing the OP of anything as we don't have enough information, but if time after time the boys were taken away from him it makes you wonder what kind of red flags he was raising with the parents. Or did you ignorantly not consider that he had a role to play in his circumstances? Do you actually believe that everything in OP's life is the fault of society? Even if it is entirely everyone else's fault, how does reinforcing that help him in any way?

But you don't care about helping people, now do you? Though you pretend to by being a LL vol.

You were quiet for a long while. Building something good, working with boys, keeping your negativity in check. So what happened? Why the relapse into this angry, self-righteous persona? Did you lose a YF or your boy job? Please don't reveal anything personal, these are rhetorical questions. But this is sad for those of us who once thought of you fondly.

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