If they hook up with you, it is because of something they are looking for in life. Often it is not money. It is a psychological hunger they have or a need for a person who can fill a role, perform a function. If they have a dysfunctional family and most of us do in some way, you may have to play a role in their family, like a new chess piece on the board They will tell you in one way or another very quickly what they need. If a teenage boy wants to go to bed with you, he will tear your door down to do it. this may sound a bit obvious |