You are showing that you have a poor understating of what I am going through. I dont really care what you are going through, because you are treating him like shit, and making out like you have no choice. I understand that its painful to lose a boy. I understand that its painful to see the beginnings of puberty. None of that means you have to treat him like shit. You have a choice. Puberty is the problem and it has gotten him. No its not. You, and your beliefs and thoughts, are the problem. you can't pin this on boylovers. I absolutely can. If this is how boylovers react to someone who they supposedly love getting older, then no wonder society hates us. But, you didnt actually love him. I am sure that teleios have the similar problems If a telio suddenly turned round to their partner and said "actually, I dont love you any more, you are too old" and gave them the cold shoulder and rejected them, that would be as bad as what you are doing. Imagine if his little sister turned round to you one day and said "actually, you are too old, I dont want to play with you any more", and became cold and unresponsive to you and avoided you whenever they could. |