I am not treating him like shit. heres things you have said I am turning cold. It's very painful because there is no communication between me and him to explain to him that I unable to continue to support him as I used to. I told him you're now old and you are more like adults than you are like your younger sister I recognize the deformation that puberty is causing him and I turn cold again. The problem is that he still views me the same way and wants the same relationship that we had before but I can't give it to him. I can't get out of it because he's family. his is sort of like a break up, nothing physical ever happened between us, but it's a break up and I need to move on but it's tricky because I still spend a lot of time with his sister which means it is difficult not to spend time with him I am usually the one who brings out my nieces and nephews out of their shell when they are in a gathering but I was nowhere to be found. I was so harsh towards my nephew without knowing it today. I hugged his sister who is around 5 and I was telling him you are now older and big and I never hugged him nor got him closer to me. I am worried that I am going to cut ties with him He needs me because his parents are bullies but I can't be there for him as I used to I am still excited to spend time with his sister but not with him anymore All this sounds like you are treating him like shit, to me |