Each individual/family is unique

Talk about your polarized exaggerated straw man characters from the harmful narratives of our troubled minds! No ability to see how, even if the culture is generally off the rails, that doesn't mean that every person within the culture has drunk the hysterical dramatic koolaid. And why are you (and all of these old BC heads) so quick to poo poo the idea that a non-offending boylover might be judge for the content of their character rather than bulldozed for the implied label of their unactualized impulse? How is society going to make any progress if no one talks about these issues with the people in their own neighborhoods? How is anything going to be decriminalized if the only place people are permitted to discuss these natural tendencies is with disembodied nicks on the anonymous web? You talk a big game about "truths" that you wish society would accept, but when it comes right down to it you have zero faith in your arguments. You are as attached to the idea of you being an outcast as is the most biased social worker/leo anti map activist. Don't blame tpka "Tyred" as the representative for all things wrong in society. Don't blame the one person urging faith in our fellow man. Don't blame the one person willing to have dialogue across party lines. You are the one who has retreated into this bunker mentality, unwilling to see that the trees making up society's forest are not as single mindedly cruel and unusual (sick) as you assume them to be.