Don't let your fantasies come in the way of...

...your enjoying the moments spent with the boy. It's common for BLs to be overly cautious about any physical contact with boys, but what you describe is perfectly fine, and I highly doubt his parents would think anything bad about, unless you live in a crazy community (I know nothing about you, after all, so you're the only one who can judge the situation in the end). My guess is that his parents would feel moved if they saw their kind cuddled by you (as long as this cuddle is not visibly sexual in any way, of course). It is hard for an autist boy to come to such close contact with someone else, and it's a very positive sign for him and should be a cause for joy to anyone who cares about him. So, congrats for having earned the trust of the boy, and enjoy all the affection he has to give you. Whatever your dreams are about don't matter to anyone, including you, regarding what happens with this boy, as long as you know where the social/legal limits are and stay within them. Life is too short to invent more crazy rules than this world already has... Lots of happy boys to you, FF mi lon. mute mije lili kin li lon. o sina kute e mi, mi ala wile, pilin pona mi li anpa e pilin ante.