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Maybe Im missing something but I dont see what the problem is? I assume that because you are on this board, you are sexually attracted to boys. but you do realise that just because a boy sits on your lap, it doesnt mean they are sexually attracted to you, or at all interested in you in that way? I dont get how you jumped from a boy sitting on your lap and saying he likes you, to that hes "into you" and that you should "lead him on" It doesnt (necessarily) mean anything other than that he sees something in you that he trusts, and he has reached out to you in a way that he doesnt with others ( if its the case that he is actually autistic and doesnt like to touch people) Theres no need for you to DO anything, other than wait and see and be patient. Maybe he never sits on your lap again. Maybe he does and starts to feel more comfortable with you. None of that means that its anything sexual or that you need to "lead him on", whatever that means. Leave it up to him as to whether he wants more physical contact or not. Theres nothing wrong with cuddles or physical contact. Your thoughts and feelings are yours, not his. Your sexual attraction is yours, not his. I think you are right to be careful and not have parents walk in on you while he is cuddling. But if the parents are around and see him come to you of his own accord and initiate physical contact, then you can gauge their reaction. And whatever you do, do not confess to the parents that you have sexual feelings for boys. That is a sure way to ruin your life before its even started. |