Don't be daft

"Many so-called "BLers" throw all of the traditional definitions of love out the window. They talk about the different flavors of children like a butcher talking about which cuts of meat they find the tastiest." Part of that is just your mischaracterization and the other part of that is just normal behavior among all single males. It's perfectly normal for single males of all sexual orientations to drool over a hot person's physical traits. It's probably normal among women, too, though perhaps they go about it a different way. But you would understand that if you hadn't been born an old maid.