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Posted by Tyred on 2024-September-7 16:44:16, Saturday
In reply to Sounds Like..., posted by larry on 2024-September-7 15:54:59, Saturday

Did someone call for you to be banned?
Did someone pose as a child and attempt to connect with you off board?
Did someone charm you into giving up details about your personal life and then add them to a shared file kept on you, accessible by other volunteer "therapists" but not to you?
Did someone follow you all around the board calling you a liar/troll/non-authentic in an attempt to discredit you after you criticized them?

No? Then how do those topics "sounds like" the way you have been treated lately?

You are the one who has been getting combative recently. Spewing profanity, acting hateful and calling out the dogs on someone who merely asked questions about your experience in the criminal justice system. If you didn't want to discuss those sensitive topics, then why throw them in the face of the one person around here who consistently warns of the likely negative consequences of pedophiles acting on their criminal impulses?

You are the one who lived your life and your story is yours to tell. If you want to portray your experience in the criminal justice system as all peaches and cream, then no one else knows enough to say any different. If you want to describe your victim as both welcoming of the molestation and also non-bothered by seeing you prosecuted and having to visit you in prison, then no one else is informed enough to dispute you on the facts of your situation, but you have to realize that people are going to find that hard to believe.

But no one is calling you a liar. No one is bullying you. You may not believe it, but no one wants to see you get upset, but at the same time no one is going to allow you to bully them into silence with your profanity laden outbursts. If you are going to bring up your situation here on the public board then it's not bullying for people to discuss it. Declaring that you only want those who agree with you to speak about the topics you bring up isn't reasonable.
Tyred

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