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That's why sex is done in secret

Posted by Jessy on 2024-June-9 09:54:21, Sunday
In reply to Should moms just mind their business? posted by Tyred on 2024-June-9 07:21:53, Sunday

Your question suggests that erotic intimacy is understood, and has no negative bias, or demented social consequences...

and that becomes the conflict that becomes profitable for all the experts and sage moralists that demand they have complete intervention...

A parent loses all control and authorities have all the say. So your same question could be posed to the system at large... the child advocacy, the courts, enforcement, political branches and "mental health".

but their is no dialogue at all, intimacy under 18yo remains a disgusting, perverted, obscene, abusive, icky, damaging betrayal of trust..etc...etc..

and so, (when clearly, said activity is not all those derogatory things) youth embark on secrecy, feelings of shame, that they are bad... etc Witch in fact can and does lead to harm.

Should moms just mind their business? This is a catch 22, it's a paradox that the system knows they own, and this perpetual vicious cycle that is so lucrative to the "expert" continues everyday of every month of every year...

(My opinion) - - After the age of 9 (for male youth) the consensus of understanding in any healthy culture that values natural processions, and will accept erotic intimacy as a wonderful act of pleasant feelings, natural endorphins that gives a natural high, that knowledge is amassed this way just like in any other academic, sport, or art lesson would be... in that environment attitudes would be more less balanced, and in that "balance" a more informed "rearing" would occur. That is far from being the case in this society.

The headline: newly licensed driver of 16yo caught going 170km/h in a 100 zone... The car is impounded, excess fines issued, insurance rate become next to impossible, and no suspension for 90 days.

The commercial: during the very same news on TV that broadcast that local news is a commercial for the new electric Ford Mustang, showing the vehicle and boasting it's power... the vehicle is presented as a beast and at the end they highlight this little button on the dash called "unleashed" it sends the car into a crazy speed ability, and the commercial shows the car taking off like a rocket swerving around the highway with ease, and control.

The point is (and I could address so many cases from new gambling sites, to credit cards, to burgers that have three slabs of meat with bacon... all advertised as a great thing for anyone) you see, that all good... the PhD forensic psychiatrist has no issues with things that are fundamentally troublesome, and harming... parents have no objections, why? because this culture is indeed sick... that all makes money.

But a male youth sharing in natural desires of intimacy, with someone younger or older, that has a complete negative concept that is forced and learned... the youth desires the opportunity, but the culture demands it's wrong on purpose... and so hysterics, destructive emotions, punishments, and needless life damages occur, all to the chagrin of a parent felt embarrassed, humiliated, and cheated... (but not to the system $$$)

I think your question speaks to stewardship, this culture has nearly no babies being born (down to 1.2 per female), sex as a "thing" is overall unpopular and apparently far less sex is happening. Immigration is not healthy, it's become a form of self inflicted genocide, and University Grads by the 100's of thousands are all looking for "their ticket" in an economy that survive by creating copious amounts of debt everyday.

Your question - - -

Should moms just mind their business?,

Becomes...

Should moms be better informed, is society sick? and should eroticism for male youth become much more acceptable, less monetized by a demented class of scammers?


Jessy

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