No one is stopping you from evolving but yourself

You imagine these them vs us labels because you can't bring yourself to engage honestly with valid criticism. No one can help "being what they are" but you do have control of how you treat children. Every medium sized town in the United States has multiple places to congregate that will support boylovers in many ways, from the boy scouts and little league to summer and after school camps and volunteer organizations, and for those who decide for themselves that they need support with making healthy sexual choices there are men's integrity groups and pornography support groups at many churches and for the explicitly non-religious there are addiction recovery groups such as Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous, Sexaholics Anonymous and Sex Addicts Anonymous. No matter what types of issues you want to focus on, there is a group near you where you can congregate and use your real name and find like minded people to support you. No one from the government or antiped organizations is infiltrating self help groups to try to put pedophiles in danger. The only ones in real danger are the pedophiles who choose to ignore reality and molest children and engage with child pornography. You made your stance clear with your recent "Child Porn" post (https://boychat.org/messages/1624552.htm) where you claimed to see nothing wrong with children selling their bodies online, OnlyFan's style. That's not "who you are" it is "what you choose." The only one assigning you to that kind of role is you. Everyone has a right to post here. That is a core value of the Free Spirited Commission. How is encouraging people to respect children's dignity and human rights, hating the person? Supporting people to think be4uact is not being hateful. Many if not most boylovers who read boychat agree with the moral majority here that grown men should not be fucking little kids or using them for child pornography. It's not hateful to push back against those who argue in favor of child molestation. That free exchange of ideas is part of why boychat.org was founded and although most don't want to be on record as saying so, many BCers have quietly thanked tpka "Tyred" behind the scenes for showing up regularly to speak up for their point of view. The more positive and law abiding BCers support tpka "Tyred," but they are busy with their young friends and in their positive pursuits to join in the conversations here with all the negative incels who want to shout anyone who disagrees with them down. How can you call anyone else disrespectful when you have shit all over boychat recently with your hate spam?