OK, curiosity got the better of me and I went back and reread that post you linked (on several occasions) on boys and porn. (actually rereading my own posts is kind of a chore for me :P) I couldn't understand why you were so fixated on it. I see what the problem is now. Most BLs and guys attracted to other guys would have taken that post in the manner it was intended... as something lighthearted, whimsical and even humorous. But you are not a guy! You were never a young lad exploring the joys of masturbation. As a female, you experience it differently... it must seem sinister and frightening to you. I understand that. Women are not visual in the same way that men and boys are and porn is all about visual sexual stimulation. It's not about objectification even though you are not going to find any romance or hours of foreplay, it's right to the point. The same way most men shop... we go in, get the job done, and leave :P The best way I can explain it to you is that, it's a guy thing! International Boylove Day BoyWiki |