I'm with Rex in that I don't comprende what you mean? As someone who has already "grown up" I have a certain patterned way that I think about sexuality. My grown up pattern is to retreat, escape, change the subject and keep my sexuality hidden and under wraps. My grown up masturbation habit is to do it alone and don't really spend much time thinking about how it fits into my part of the human story. When I hear someone celebrating their sexuality, it inspires me. I feel better and more in touch with my own sexuality when I have contact with someone who is confident enough to sing songs about jizzing. I want to absorb some of that into my own psyche. I disagree that I need to grow up. Growing up is great and all, but we can always look to the young people to remind us that theres more than one way to see sexuality. Some grown ups, myself included, need to un-learn some of the grown up patterns we adopted and seeing life through a kid's eyes is a great way to readjust a rusty grown up perspective. |