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Posted by Jessy on 2017-March-16 18:26:23, Thursday
In reply to More common for boys not to see it as molestation? posted by Lysander on 2017-March-16 07:35:12, Thursday

reflect on the so called "abuse".

Punishment and shaming have gotten to be the abuse of said action.

If intervention is to be done on a case of sensual pleasures being shared before the age of 16 it must start with an unbiased assumption that youth are sexual and many seek affection that are erotic and sensually stimulating.

If the general counselor deems that abuse has taken place, and by abuse it has to an evident situational case of confinement, hurtful, antagonizing, degrading repetitive misuse of power...

The way it works now is horrifying, and unjust in the extreme... Nothing is considered, once a sex offender always a sex offender, with arbitrary laws being invented every year (just cause we have excessive stupid law makers graduating every year at 62 times the rate society needs these professions)

This society as far as it's youth are concerned are so "tender" and timid, deprived, and sterilized that the essence of "freeness", responsibility, and to some degree humanity is lost to overly emphasized structure, and tracking.

Society can't get enough of spying on it's people, the whole idea of individualism, privacy, and personality is lost to those that graduate from university with the idea that it is their responsibility to structure ever more the rigidness of life as a human, as a youth.

Molestation, sex abuse, predator, sex offender, and it goes on and on is terminology that has gotten so water-down that it encompassesand gravely hurts many many... While rewarding handsomely those who peddle and sell the ideas of "abuse" and all the modern connotations it has taken on in a life of it's own.

With an industry that only can grow by it's hysterics, i don't see how Universities, and law professions can consider a more sane approach...
in fact the idea that a legal rights group has gotten on board to help the sex offenders with |"justice" scares me to death cause why would it be in the best interest to see a fair conclusion? no no no they want the donations, the "jobs" the years of "research" just like the other side wants the jobs of prosecution.

The entire subject is a scapegoat for opportunistic "professionals", that can't envision how to be useful on this planet.


Jessy

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