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It is quite curious that

Posted by Shrink Wrap on 2012-June-15 02:13:07, Friday
In reply to Strange thing about BC posters. posted by Newport News on 2012-June-14 21:28:20, Thursday

...they cannot apply what they know in most other circumstances to what is happening here.

There are a few things going on. First, many posters, especially younger ones, have lived their entire lives during the witch hunt and have thus been socialized into the prescribed victimological paradigm, going so far as to even use the dehumanizing term "predator" when referring to particular other BLs.

Also, many fail to realize that yes, they could be Sandusky. Not all of us are so well adjusted as BLues and able to find fulfillment relatively easily. After all, no sexuality is so deviant as celibacy and thus many BLs resort any number of strategies for gratification. Hopefully, most of them involve just being supernice to our boys in the hopes that they'll want to be close to us, but some of us will engage in a bit more subterfuge while others may even use a degree of coercion, from mild to worse. Cases of the latter, thankfully, appear to be rare but of course they do happen and are not justified.

Then of course there is the question of how much of the testimony can we believe, how much it has been scripted, or how much the "victims" have been "groomed by the prosecutors," as Etenne would say. These guys, like the posters you bemoan here, have also grown up subject to the same social paradigm. While I tend to believe the boys, I have no other information than what is in this article. Do you have any additional info?

I'll tell you what additional information I do have: Sandusky founded a charity for the underprivileged that helped many boys and girls over many years. This is reminiscent of the Michael Jackson case. They both plied their boys with gifts and trips and got their boys to somehow get naked together with them.

Like us, Sandusky had no role models to emulate in order to learn how to most properly respect a boy and to gain his trust and true friendship. There was also no socially acceptable way for him to channel his affections, nor did he have safe mental health care available to him as an option when he first began to discover his attractions (a failing B4U-ACT is working on).

I lay the blame squarely on society here for failing Sandusky, the boys, and all of us.
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