Do NOT talk to the police but do NOT lie to lawyer

... and after you are busted and convicted (and finally sentenced) it might make LITTLE difference if you tell them most ANYTHING short of, "I'll do it as soon as you are not looking." Do NOT tell them that - Well, maybe if that's true, then you SHOULD be on probation or worse until you change your tune. See what I mean? Within reason and as if you were making recovery, you can tell them you are BL. If you say, "Well, I'm certainly NOT BL, but I just can't control myself if I'm drunk or my girlfriend breaks up with me.", then THAT might sound worse than, "I know when I'm about to act-out and touch a boy." The later would perhaps be on the way to control himself, rather than the guy who says, "It was NOT my fault. How can I stop it from happening again if it's not my fault?" Anyway, if I have to give too many examples of what would be stupid to say to your sex offender therapist, then this post would NEVER end. You kinda' have to immerse yourself in it by perhaps getting busted before you can tell someone EXACTLY what they should do with THEIR life. But, even then, your OWN story may not apply to their particular circumstances and you could end-up misadvising them anyway. My own attorney said, "Hey, at the end of the day of your sentencing, I'll go home to my family. But, YOU'LL have to deal with the outcome more directly than me." Well, that sounds really lame, he must have said something cooler than that, but the sentiment was that "YOU'LL" have to live it rather than the person who advises you. Anyway, I remember the one guy who stuck by his story year after year, that he was drunk that one time and accidentally touched the girl thinking it was someone else. My therapist would almost roll his eyes and ask, "So, the next time you're drunk and confused, people should just lock-up their daughters, huh? That'd make it safer for you and the daughters, huh?". Well, maybe that's how I'd say it. littlexs: age 5 yo