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If your to have any chance of escaping the "victim" label you need to cut loose your shrink and indeed anyone else who does not listen to you but acts like they know your every thought. You know what happened and what your part in that was and how you felt and still feel about that. Have the self belief to find the strength that your are what you believe you are. After all your entitled to think and feel what you like and grow to become the person you want too and not the person everyone wants you to be, so cut them loose and have nothing more to do with them. You will find friends, people who accept you and your beliefs for what you say they are and they will be true friends and indeed if you need any support particularly in relationship to what happened to your adult friend, you will find these friends will help. As for your school, unfortunately humans will be humans, I would like to be able to say it's a child thing to be bullied or victimized by taunts or worse but unfortunately it's not. It will lessen over time as long as you don't react and ignore them, if they don't get a reaction from you (what they ultimately want) they will move on to the next child to bully. I'm sure just words here are like a drop in the ocean but hang in there and don't be afraid to be your person. |