condemn not lest ye be condemned, for the measure you give is the measure you will get.” Hmmmmmm. The Nickless we know and love here is an extremely articulate, talented, and well-educated individual who works as some sort of well-salaried white-collar professional. We know he is fairly affluent, certainly more affluent than anyone in *my* social circle. He has posted that he lives in a custom-designed home that he had built. Nickless obviously has great potential as a leader of the BL community, and is likely someone we would be proud to have “out” for us. He would be an excellent model of the “non-FREAK” BL, not the “freak” as he has just called Michael Jackson in his post. However, throughout many years of posting here, Mr. Nickless has steadfastly refused to “out” himself in any way, shape, or form. He has said that he is determined to live out the rest of his life as a closeted BL, enjoying the many fruits of his affluent lifestyle. This lifestyle must be the most important thing in the world to him. Well, that’s your right, Mr. Nickless, and I don’t condemn you for it, because I have never walked in your shoes, and, ultimately, I really *don’t* know what it’s like to be Mr. Nickless. Just as you will never know what it was like to be Michael Jackson. |