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Steve-D a BLAST from the past! Re: complaints

Posted by Chuck on 2026-October-16 20:33:05, Friday
Some stuff to CHEW ON thoughtfully, for sure!!

Excerpt, link to full below:

To many good people [and friends] have "out grown" BC...or lost their attraction to it, for whatever reason[s]. But, it is not nasty posters, who caused this...We had plenty of those kinds of abusive posters, even in "the golden age" of BC...and the good people weathered it all, just fine.

Those of us who still come around, if they care in the least about BC having a good atmosphere...they should spend their time, trying to make that good, friendly atmosphere a reality...by contributing in ways that bring it back to life.

I don't know how many people notice...but, that really is about all that "I" do here...with whatever time and energy I find, to dedicate this way.

I want nothing to do with these discussions of "banning", and "who deserved what punishment, for posting whatever"...all the bickering that litters these boards, and this line of discussion, will solve nothing.

...and trying to strong arm admins, into employing new bans on hate speech, is just a new can of worms...It is a precedent, that should not be set.

Who is at fault for BC's negative state of existence [presuming it actually is such, as some of us selectively read...and BC doesn't seem especially awful]?...everyone who wants it to change, yet declines to contribute to this change they so long for.

Chuck
  • (Boychat.org link) stumbled across this one from 2010! Steve-D!
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