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Posted by Popcorn on 2026-March-22 21:35:35, Sunday
In reply to Chuck, Popcorn, and Scotus posted by Nightlight on 2026-March-22 18:54:20, Sunday

The hurt from away back when is extreme. Was it necessary? What does the "system" feel they accomplished in all the cases that young guys or girls shared intimacy with someone younger or older.

It derives from a state of disbelief. That nothing has changed in legal understanding, that going from totally acceptable behaviour, to a disgusting betrayal of evil abuse because a year or two, or five... make the age difference.

and not that the severity of the crime progresses either, just that date makes it so dyer.

I'm sorry if my compulsive disorder has damaged, or frustrated participants.

It comes from a place that means well, and that is trying still to heal.

I truly believe the system is over the top, and frankly enjoys humiliation and hungers for intervention. (but I realize I've said that at nauseam and for some time)

It's difficult to get to much into detail, and so it's just the macro ideas that are batted around here. Thanks for the "splash of cold water", BC has always been this place that has heard my "venting", perhaps it's time to stop.

Before this gets to another "rambling on", I'll just say thank you BC. Nowhere else would I have been accepted and tolerated.

I guess I just always wished that some little change, or new understanding may have come to be, but never has said subject been more despised.

Try however to understand not just me, but the 10's of thousands that have been deeply affected by brutal intervention, younger and older... not for having shared in physical affection, but from what is considered expert intervention, from a terrible act of abuse that can never be viewed as anything but a treacherous betrayal.

Thanks again.

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