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We must be reading different reports from different researchers. My understanding, from the materials I have read, is that boys who have not been made phobic by their parents and friends, want sex pretty much any way they can get it. And the less complicated, the better. That means they'll often engage in sexual activity with anyone who they are comfortable with, no matter what that person's age or physical appearance. And if they can make a little money doing so, so much the better! They then can avoid admitting to themselves the truth--that they are, in fact, bisexual. So no guilt feelings afterwards. Unless, of course, they are already confirmed "gays". Then the appearance--and the financial situation--of their partner become very important. And as for "love," that usually doesn't really enter into the equation. "Like" is usually more than sufficient. In fact, even "like" is often not necessary. Just "available" is enough! Have you read Brongersma, Sandford, Thorstadt, Davidson, Martinson, Rossman, and a bunch of others--actually, too many to mention? Which researchers do you depend on for your information about boys' sexuality? M. You may want to consider broadening your sources of information about boys' attitudes about sex, IMHO ;-) |