| is by simply not offending. I agree that there are cases in which the boy doesn't get traumatised. However, there are also cases in which the child does get traumatised. And of course, many cases in between where the boy feels bad about it afterwards, without being scarred for life, or where he doesn't know what to think about it. I don't know how often each type of situation occurs, but I don't think it's possible to ever be 100% sure that sexual actions won't be harmful to the kid. And therefore it's not a risk we should be willing to take as boylovers. And even if the actions themselves don't harm the kid, the social stigma and the need for secrecy and possibly being interrogated by law enforcement would be a heavy burden for the boy. Simply following the law can prevent so many bad things. That said, you're absolutely right about these interrogation tactics. It surprises me every time how much offenders are willing to confess in these videos. I don't have anything illegal to hide, but I would run if someone "just wanted to talk" to me. Because I doubt that they would have any compassion for non-offenders. The fact that they are on this forum already shows that they don't understand the difference between pedophiles and child abusers. | 
