I appreciate your post. As a younger boylover who is still figuring things out, it's interesting to hear your perspective. Speaking from experience, boys want an adult who listens to them, who is relatable to the point that the adult "gets" them and "sees" them. they don't care about your looks. I think you're right, and also, I think this is true of women as well as boys. Social skills are far more important than physical looks in getting a romantic partner. There are plenty of unattractive old broke people out there who get women and get boys, through some combination of good social skills and just making an effort/taking risks to do so. |