The number one thing to consider in the BL world is safety. This should always be at the core of everything we do. You can also be the safest person around and not be doing anything wrong or illegal, yet if those you are interacting with are not being safe you are potentially at risk. With this in mind, and whilst it gives me no pleasure to say this, if you are a member of BLOL please consider the following - - If a long term member suddenly starts acting differently, speaking to you in a way they don’t normally, ask yourself why. - If a new member seems to be overly friendly and asking you a lot of questions all of a sudden, ask yourself why - if someone is trying to get you off site for conversation all of a sudden, or are bringing up conversations that are dodgy, ask yourself why - if a member suddenly starts asking you personal things, ask yourself why - remember to NEVER give personal information about yourself away to others. If something doesn’t look or feel right, trust your instinct. Remember, you are the best way of keeping yourself safe. Only you can know for certain you have done nothing wrong and that you have not been compromised. I urge caution to all users to be careful. |