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Re: I am terrified of being exposed

Posted by coonigan on 2025-July-11 04:16:13, Friday
In reply to I am terrified of being exposed posted by sjoquist on 2025-July-11 03:01:24, Friday

I suffered from agoraphobia for years and I think it started from stress
about my sexuality, panic attacks are horrible things, you just die every
time they occur. I urge you to read up about them, they are fundamentally
harmless, and you must face up to that and face your fears head-on knowing
that the more you do this purposely the weaker they become.

What is your trigger that panic will ensue? If you feel unreal then learn
to let it pass without the expectation that the feeling will grow into a
full grown panic attack. It only worsens because of the expectation of
fear and hyperventilation. Hyperventilation is too much oxygen in the
body and a lack of carbon-dioxide which triggers breathing normally.
It may sound crazy but hold your breath for about 10 seconds and you
will find that you inhale a deep breath.

It is curable and I hope you overcome it soon.

coonigan

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