It's summertime and livin is easy, boys are jumpin

Most of the vols are Americans or Europeans, so they are probably out enjoying the long summer days with their young friends, fishing, swimming, working in their gardens, hitting the trails on foot, bikes or horseback. And if you'll remember, the "advice" wasn't for you. It was ostensibly for Old Sock Puppy, but also meant as a clue for the less experienced that this type of website is not a safe place to share personal details about your life, since you have no control over what happens to any disclosures. A chat can have the best of intentions and a firm confidentiality policy, but none of that will keep their "patient notes" safe from either a law enforcement takedown of the site or an infiltrator willing to pull a long con. "You've been here long enough, officer. Why don't you volunteer and find out for yourself?"