Declaring testimony could simply be encouraged to be honest. "OK class,... Welcome back to the academic year, I'd like to go around the grade 7 class and ask you to revel some of the highlights of your summer... If this culture was not so freaked out about erotic energy, I'm sure many cool discussions could take place about erotic encounters, how it was really, really appreciated, or perhaps not so much. But the freaked out, insanity over the top drama and all the "experts" that must absolutely have victims to profit from won't ever allow this normalcy, honest talk. The humiliation and shame of sexuality is just too lucrative, it's delivers in spades because male youth ooze sexual ambition, but are "mouth tied" from ever expressing a nuance of it less it become a criminal ordeal in many/most cases. Doesn't have to be that way, this society demands that it be no other way. It's truly tragic, and to me it's truly nothing short of criminal in many many ways. The judicial system, and mainly the mental health cabal is criminal, certainly opportunistic and the abuse industry, the chief abusers in my opinion. When something so normal, as to be intimate, and explore ones sexual energy with a friend younger or older becomes a life debilitating ordeal of humiliation, punishment, and consequences demanded of the social stewards... To me it's a cancerous existence with self destructive eventualities, and unfortunately that's not science fiction. |