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Embracing your boyloverness vs. caving to paranoia

Posted by WhiteBoySummer on 2025-May-16 16:17:25, Friday

This post strictly pertains to legal online activities. I know some here probably visit the dark web and go for the juicy stuff, but that's not what I'm talking about at all.

When it comes to social media, it's difficult if not impossible to participate in an anonymous way. These big sites use many tactics to identify users through various means, such as denying access to connections through tor, requiring verification codes sent to cell phones, and requiring you to provide your real name during signup, to name a few.

For a boylover, this can lead to a bit of a conundrum. How far do you take your participation? Do you avoid accessing all boy content on social media, or do you embrace your BLness, knowing anyone who's "watching" could certainly determine from your subscriptions, likes, and watch history that you have certain proclivities.

This is probably less of an issue for those who've already been through the ringer in regards to having gone to prison for some offense, real or fabricated, been caught with illegal content, and is on the sex offender registry, or for someone who's been outed as a BL by online vigilantes.

But for those of us who have clean records and have always kept this a closely-guarded secret, how far do you take your participation?

I've always been cautious about this, but lately I'm becoming less so and just want to embrace my BLness. For all the boys I'm a fan of on youtube, I want to subscribe to all their channels, like all their videos, and write encouraging comments where I can. Think Hulann. with his long playlist of boy videos.

I've heard stories of some guys who take this to an unhealthy extreme, such as leaving obscene comments and lewd suggestions, or trying to contact the boys in private in order to bait them into jacking off on cam or some shit, but that's not what I'm talking about at all.

Do you cave to the paranoia of letting the powers that be privy to your secret, or do you embrace your BL side and throw caution to the wind?

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