Some MAPs on social and federated media are deeply disgusted by the idea that minor attraction must be romantic, or fulfill some higher purpose or relationship model. They view MAPs who insist on this as elitist and assimilationist, and abhor all forms of assimilation strategy and perceived dishonesty.

This can work for anti-c's, of course (it's always abuse), but also to many pro-c's I am now seeing on these platforms, who would prefer hookups and transactional sex.