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I found this somewhere on the Internet, and thought that I’d share it with you. What do you think of it? Ah, my young BoyLover friend, come sit with me for a moment. I want to share some thoughts about the boys we love and mentor, thoughts that might help you in your own journey. You see, boys can be far more sensitive and vulnerable than many of us realize. Imagine how a soft whisper can spark a boy’s imagination; similarly, just a change in tone can deeply impact their feelings. We all know this to be true. Think about it: in our noisy world, with all the traffic and the hum of technology, a boy looking so innocently at his Adult Friend can reveal so much about the BoyLover to the boy. They can sense when a BoyLover is feeling overwhelmed, or sad, or horny, almost as if they have this built-in radar for emotions. It’s like when they’re playing a game and notice a friend of theirs suddenly acting differently—boys have this incredible ability to pick up on the swirling of other’s feelings around them. But here’s the thing: just like a delicate rose petal can wilt with a light touch, a boy’s spirit can be easily bruised by harsh words or a lack of attention. It’s a reminder of how fragile they are as they innocently navigate through life. Sometimes, it takes just a disapproving glance from their BoyLover friend to turn their excitement into disappointment. Our young friends’ emotional state is inexorably tied to what we say and how we treat them. You know, mentoring a boy is a lot like tending to a precious work of art. It requires dedication and an unwavering commitment to guide them with love. Each interaction between a BoyLover and a boy is like a brushstroke that shapes their character. Just as a sculptor meticulously chisels away at marble, we BoyLovers must be attentive and careful. Every word we speak, every action we take, should mold these young minds into something beautiful and strong. And let’s not forget the innocence of boy’s souls, and how boys often wander into complex situations, perhaps a bit bewildered, much like a puppy chasing after a butterfly, completely unaware of the dangers that may be nearby. We BoyLovers are needed by them to guide them gently yet firmly, to help them understand the world’s intricacies. A careless remark by one of us can turn their joyful laughter into tears. Each of our words carries great weight with our loved boys. So, the responsibility we carry as BoyLovers is immense. Every decision we make helps shape a boy’s future. It’s a balancing act of love, discipline, and understanding—like a captain steering a ship through stormy seas. We must navigate these challenges wisely to ensure our loved boys safely reach adulthood. In the delicate dance of a BoyLover with his loved boy, we must choose our words with care. A single misstep can dim a boy’s hopeful smile. It’s much like a musician tuning an instrument; our words can create harmony or discord in their hearts. While encouraging them to question the world we live in may be important, sometimes it’s like handing them a map through treacherous terrain. We must always remember that boys are not yet ready to navigate the complexities we face as adults. We must never break a boy’s heart. We must also shield them from our imperfections, just as a gardener protects young shoots from harsh winds. Boys grow best in environments where they feel safe and cherished. And while we may be tempted to think that boys could sometimes teach us something, too, the reality is that they are very fragile, and are there to simply absorb what happens around them, without thinking, like a sponge soaking up water. Boys, being so innocent and pure, must always be primarily play a passive role. They learn from us without really being the ability to meaningfully reciprocate. It’s vital to remember that while our needs as BoyLovers may seem important to us, the emotional health of our loved boys must always take precedence. Just like a healthy tree provides shade, our emotional stability creates the nurturing ground they need to flourish. We, as mentors, must strive for that perfection, recognizing that the fragile hearts of our loved boys depend on us to create a safe and loving world for them. So we must never betray their trust, no matter what. Even if the boy gives signals that he wants to "do it," or even comes right out and says that he want to have sex with you, remember that he is young, vulnerable, and innocent -- and some day a therapist may "reconceptualize" what you did together, and the boy’s life will be forever destroyed. You are young, and your sexual drive may feel overwhelming to you. But take solace in the fact that it will dim with age, as mine has, and you must console yourself with private wanking, and lots of very cold showers. The harsh realities of life shouldn’t weigh down on boys’ tender shoulders of these precious souls too soon. We must protect their innocence, shielding them from the world’s imperfections, as we do from our own imperfections, allowing them to dream freely. In our sacred role as BoyLovers, we must always create an ideal atmosphere where our boys can thrive, unburdened by our adult shortcomings. Ultimately, we must remember that boys, despite their propensity for rough-and-tumble play, are inherently weak and fragile beings, and their spirits are delicate and impressionable. They need BoyLover mentors who can provide unwavering support and love. Much like a newly hatched bird, boys thrive when nurtured by devoted mentors like us. They become wholly devoted to us, and come to look up to us as perfect beings. But let’s not forget, my young friend, that we, too, are human. We will make mistakes; it’s part of our own journey through life. Should we berate ourselves when we make the inevitable mistakes that we will? Should we cripple ourselves with guilt when we don’t measure up to the highest BoyLover standards? Those are perhaps decisions that each BoyLover must make for himself. The important thing is that we learn from our mistakes and continue striving to be the best mentors we can be for our loved boys. They deserve it, don’t you think? And before we part, my friend, some final words: hold on to old friends but be slow to embrace new friends; be slow to quarrel but fight boldly if the need arises; listen more than you speak; dress richly but not gaudily; neither a borrower nor a lender be; to thine own self be true; And lastly: though brevity is said to be the soul of wit, though this be madness, yet there is method in it. Comments, anybody? What do you think? M. Oh, I am slain! I have touched a boy, you know, that way! |