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Well, you certainly win the nick-game this week.

Posted by Scotusbaby on 2024-September-18 18:23:22, Wednesday
In reply to How to cure nostalgia? posted by ishmaelKimitake on 2024-September-18 00:19:10, Wednesday
We all have the boy-shaped hole in our hearts, and can relate.

Staying focused on being 58 (!) in 2024 (!!) is a serious challenge; the mind naturally drifts back to happier times.

It's a matter of finding a BL STRUCTURE (Boy Scouts? YMCA?) so you can feel like you're doing something good for boys in a pro-social context, so you're not getting down in the too-close personal intimacy, and not getting destroyed socially.

Good luck, and keep us posted!

Also, be aware of the emotional currents which are seasonal; undeniably powerful; but merely seasonal. Learn to work with those energies, rather than trying to halt or deny them, or stuff them with PROZAC. (As my sister does.)

---Sb
SCOTUSbaby
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