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CBT is terrible

Posted by Veronica on 2024-July-20 07:13:22, Saturday
In reply to not great posted by kit on 2024-July-20 06:33:54, Saturday

CBT is terrible, and in the field of sex issues it is torture. I have read how sexual deviants were treated by behaviorists back in the 70s in the USA (electroshock, masturbatory reconditioning), the whole point was to make penis to react to the right stimuli, but in the 80s therapists understood that it is not enough to prevent sexual offense so they started to manage not only the arousal, but also the thought process through cognitive techniques, but it is still mechanical.

In my case after psychoanalysis I understood that I need to transition to female gender, because femininity, attachment to it is too strong in my case and such structure was already crystallized in the early childhood(4-5 years). I think it is important to find personal meaning of fantasies, feeling, dreams and attraction and integrate them into self concept and the whole history of self and family. I understood that in my matriarch family it was impossible for me to develop male identity and sexuality. Also philosophy helped me.

I think that every "sexual deviance" has complex psychological structure which is already evident since yearly childhood. Maybe such structure is manifestation of biological features. It would be interesting to study preparaphilic boys and girls, but it is not possible, because childhood sexuality is a taboo topic.

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